Session 2: Intentional Discipline in Parenting

The heart of session 2 lies a profound truth that challenges our modern parenting instincts: discipline is an act of love, not punishment. Drawing from Proverbs and Hebrews 12, we're reminded that just as God disciplines those He loves, we are called to lovingly correct our children—not out of anger or convenience, but from a deep desire to shape their hearts toward righteousness. Session 2 unpacks the biblical concept of the 'rod,' revealing it as a shepherd's tool of guidance and protection rather than an instrument of abuse. This perspective transforms our understanding of discipline from mere behavior management to spiritual formation. We learn that consequences without instruction create legalistic children who know rules but don't recognize their need for a Savior. The sobering story of Eli and his sons in 1 Samuel serves as a warning: permissive parenting that fails to address sin can lead to devastating consequences. Yet there's hope in knowing that consistent, loving discipline—paired with clear communication and grace—trains our children to recognize their sin nature and ultimately points them toward Christ. This isn't about raising perfect kids; it's about raising children who understand they need a perfect Savior.